It’s when you are hurt, the tears roll down your cheeks, the heart cries, and it feels as if there’s no tomorrow. The thought of that someone who has wounded you deeply is heart wrenching and is likely to make you sad and revengeful. It all happens when the one you love cheats on you. In better words, if they fail to live up to your expectations.
1. Expect less, accept more
When a loving relationship breaks it seems as if the world has ended for youNevertheless, you should not impugn anybody, as you are solely responsible for what you go through. If you want to love, love unconditionally as that is the only cure. Once your expectations start running high, things will only go downhill. As the saying goes, excess of everything is bad; it applies to relationships too.
The expectations soar higher and higher and spoil the relationship when they go unmet. Learn to accept the short comings in any relationship. when a loving relationship breaks it seems as if the world has ended for you and it leaves you crying in the dark.
2. Think from their viewpoint
Circumstances play a significant role in breaking or making a connectionNo doubt, it feels bad when what your eyes are unable to see what they wish to, when your ears do not hear what they want to, when you do not get what your heart desires. But if you can learn to put yourself in other person’s shoes and feel how you would have behaved had you been in their place, half of your problems would vanish.
Believe it, it’s very easy to think from your own point of view but by keeping in mind your partner’s standpoint, you will automatically be calmed down. Circumstances play a significant role in breaking or making a connection.
3. Love yourself
If I can’t love myself how can I expect others to love me?Ask yourself before reaching any conclusion. Why he or she hurt me? What is it that has made me so sad? Why did I give the authority to someone to break my heart? If they have said something to me or if they have decided to move away from my life, why should it bother me so much? Am I so weak? Why can’t I be happy with myself? If I can’t love myself how can I expect others to love me? Am I born to waste my time on things that make me feel emotionally drained and low in energy? And,
this self-introspection will give you the answer.
4. Live life fully
We are born with a specific purpose and we need to find that out
Life is not to be wasted on people who do not care for you and your feelings. There is a reason why we are here on this earth. We are born with a specific purpose and we need to find that out. Heart breaks, failed relationships are mere distractions. They are not letting us see the actual reason behind our existence.
There is so much better to do in life. Travel, meditate, make new friends, meet more like-minded people, explore the world, do what you love. there’s no end. People who make us cry do not deserve our attention. So, just forget about them and live your life fully.