Sounds scary. Isn’t it? Yes, it is not easy to get rid of a psychopath boyfriend or partner. Your everyday life becomes a nightmare when you are in a relationship with such a partner or lover. Try to leave him and he will make your life all the more difficult. Just be cautious. If you are here, reading this article then you must be feeling anxious and trying hard to find ways to get rid of him at any cost. Here are a few tips to help you save your life from your psychopath boyfriend.
1. Don’t show him that you want to leave him
DO NOT ever yell, scream or cry in front of him and show him that you want to leave himIt is not a good idea to tell him on his face that you are tired of him and his behaviour. DO NOT ever yell, scream or cry in front of him and show him that you want to leave him. This will make him take any step to scare you to keep you in his life. He may harm your mentally and physically.
So, beware. It is good that you have finally decided to leave him but pretend that you are happy with him and love him a lot.
2. Tell your parents about him
Inform your parents that you feel trapped in this relationship You must be scared now and you don’t want to bother your parents. But, they are your parents and would understand your situation. Keep them in the loop and inform them that you feel trapped in this relationship and now need their help to get rid of him. They will surely try their best to help you out.
3. Keep talking to him
Tell him that you love him even if you don’t.No matter how upset you are with him or with his actions, don’t stop talking to him. It will make him restless and he will plan things that will make your life hell. Keep praising him and say sorry even if it is not your fault. Tell him that you love him even if you don’t. Do not ever show him that you are planning to leave him soon.
4. Stop meeting him at isolated places
Drop the plan of meeting him in isolated placesYou never know what he would be up to. Try to avoid meeting him at isolated places or in car late night. Don’t show him that you are trying to avoid him. Just tell him casually that you like public places more and go for movies or in restaurants with him until you get a chance to leave him completely.
5. Change your phone number
Once you have changed your number stop any contact with common friendsNow that you have changed your phone number, move to your parents’ house if you were staying alone, or shift to some other place that which is not in his knowledge. Stop any contact with common friends, for they might leak your information. Find a new job, in a new place without ever telling him about anything.
6. Take help from Police
If situation goes beyond your control then contact policeYou have to take this extreme step if the situation worsens. If he keeps threatening you or succeeds in finding your new address or office location, take help from police. They are there to protect us.
Do not feel embarrassed, do not think too much about what people would think. Your safety, your life, your happiness should matter the most to you. Get rid of your psychopath boyfriend as soon as possible.