Psychopaths are normal human beings like us. You will not recognize them unless you are in a relationship with them. They will behave absolutely normally in social gatherings.
But, when they are alone with you, they will start showing you the signs. You might be thinking ‘my boyfriend could not be the one’.
Beware! This may just be the beginning of your relationship. If you are here reading this article, you may have certain doubts.
Check out the signs that will help you identify that you are dating a psychopath.
1. He gives you silent treatment at times
Oh, this is their favourite. They just love to shower all their love upon you some times and the other times, they love to find a reason to fight with you and stop talking to you for days.
They do this because they crave for your attention. They want you around them forever. You should not be too busy with work or family. It is not their possessiveness but a mental condition that makes them behave like that. They turn into stones some days and on the other days they cry for your attention and love.
Does this sound familiar? Could you relate to it? You are with a person who could have psychopathic traits.
2. He gets too serious too soon
Things move extremely fast with a psychopath. They will love just everything about you.
They can’t stop talking, thinking, dreaming about you. If your boyfriend talks about family, future and kids on the second date, beware! He is not kidding. They are not practical people.
They live in a fantasy world. They will keep telling you how perfect you are and how good you both look together. Don’t fall into their psycho trap.
3. He is never happy professionally
They are actually dealing with their own insecurities. So, it is natural to lose focus professionally. They have no career goals, no ambition. It could be due to their mental condition.
So, you can figure out by talking to him whether he is genuinely facing any problem professionally or it is his habit to leave jobs and finding faults in colleagues and bosses.
4. He often lies and makes excuses
Lying is very easy for them because they can’t show their true emotions. It is very difficult for them due to mental weakness. Psychopaths are not strong people. They can make stories and you will have to believe in them otherwise they will get upset with you like a child.
It is a kind of personality disorder. They mix up the truth with the lies. You should be a bit more cautious now and try to end this relationship as soon as possible before it makes your life miserable.
5. He accuses you of cheating on him
Is he constantly on a lookout for unusual signs to accuse you of cheating? Be it your picture on Facebook or call from a male friend, he wants to keep a check on everything and does everything possible to take over your life.
Even if you are late from your mom’s house, he will accuse you of cheating on him, if he wants to. You can’t do anything about it. Do you really want to spend your entire life like that? Rethink! He will never change. Stop dating a psychopath.