You both love each other a lot, spend great time together, go out often for movies and shopping. Still, at times, it feels something is lacking. You want to speak your heart out, you feel like crying for no reason at all, you think of a joke in a serious situation, you want to tell your partner how low you felt whole day. However, sharing "just anything" at times worsens the situation. But, why does that happen? Did you see the time or think before starting that conversation?
Here we are to share with you some easy ways that would help you to have better conversation with your partner:
1. Eyes speak louder than words: Look into your partner's eyes. And, tell him/her without using a single word how you are feeling. Try to speak with your eyes. The deeper s/he will look into your eyes, the more connected you both will feel. Don't wait for him or her to start the conversation. Just speak up, and that will be the beginning of an improved conversation between you too. Hey, wait! That doesn't mean you should force him/her to look into your eyes. If s/he avoids then please wait.
2. Use right words at the right time: No matter how you are feeling or how much you both love each other, you should see the time before opening up your mouth. Is s/he in some kind of stress? Does s/he want to spend some time alone? Respect your partner's feelings and give them some time. It will make them comfortable and they will themselves initiate the next conversation with you whenever they will be ready.
3. Find time for meaningful conversations: Yes, if you both love each other, you can say anything to your partner. But, also try to find time for some meaningful conversation with your partner like discussing insurance plans, future, home loans, children, etc. Such meaningful conversations once in a while will make your partner feel more loving towards you and s/he will appreciate your seriousness towards the relationship.
4. Expressing more impresses more: The more you express your feelings to your partner, the more your partner will feel attracted towards you. You both share a loving relationship with the ocean of emotions inside your hearts. And, keeping any sort of feeling in the heart might hurt you later. So, it's better to be expressive as much as possible.
The better the conversation between you too, the more loving your relationship will get with time. But, again! Just check if your partner is ready to have a conversation with you.