3 keys for married couples for a healthy relationship!

Follow some basic rules of the relationship road that will keep you headed in the right direction.

Love Sutra Love Sutra Jan 08, 2019
3 keys for married couples for a healthy relationship! 3 keys for married couples for a healthy relationship!

Relationships are nothing less than a mission! You even need strategy, foresight and effort to make your relationship work.
Life is going to pull you in different directions, but it's important that you know how you can maintain your focus and feed your relationship so it continues to thrive. You need to follow some basic rules of the relationship road that will keep you headed in the right direction.

Happiness and well-being are important for every relationship. However, there are certain other steps you can take to keep your relationship healthy.

1. Communication

CommunicationCommunication in your relationship is about true connection and passionTalking openly is a key piece of the healthy relationship puzzle. Healthy couples make time for communication and check in with one another on a regular basis. To keep your relationship on a healthy note, it's important to have healthy conversations.

However, you can talk about more than just parenting and maintaining the household. Remember your communication style is important -- more so than your commitment levels!

Communication helps you stay connected with your partner. Make a habit to spend a few minutes each day discussing deeper or more personal subjects. Doing this will keep you connected and make your bond strong with your partner over a long term.
But that doesn't mean you should avoid bringing up difficult subjects. Even if you are discussing the concerns or problems with your partner, discuss in a kind way without shouting or being aggressive. Disagreements are part of any relationship, but if you focus on winning the fight, it can damage your relationship.

Couples that use destructive behaviour during arguments - such as yelling, resorting to personal criticisms or withdrawing from the discussion - are more likely to break up than are couples that fight constructively. Even your negative communication patterns such as anger and contempt can be linked to an increased likelihood of splitting up.

So, your communication style and personality traits can predict whether you will have a happy married life or if you will opt for a divorce.

2. Keep it interesting

Keep it interestingInteresting thing helps you to keep spark alive in your relationshipAfter marriage, your life changes a lot! You are stuck between kids, careers, household chores and outside commitments, and among all these, you forget to pay attention to your love. You feel difficult to stay connected to your partner. This somehow gives room to boredom.

Even researchers have found that couples start feeling boredom during their seventh year of marriage and they significantly start feeling less satisfied with their relationships nine years later.

So, even if your life is a mess, you have plenty of good reasons to make the effort. Keep things interesting take a break from your routine life and try new things -- go for a dance class together or for an afternoon picnic to a new place.

But don't go to the regular date nights or a movie at same place again and again. You may start feeling bored. Other than it, try to have intimacy with your partner, as it is also a critical component of romantic relationships which ensures that your physical and emotional needs are met properly.

3. Keep a check on finances

keep check on financesKeeping a regular money check-in helps you in making your relationship stableEvery relationship has its ups and downs; yet there are some factors that create bumps in a relationship. For example, your finances and parenting decisions often create recurring conflicts. So, start working to strengthen your union before your relationship shows signs of trouble.

Whenever you think that your relationship is going on the wrong track, seek professional help for improving or strengthening your relationship. You can even go for marital education programmes that teach skills such as good communication, effective listening and dealing with conflict. This somehow will reduce the risk of divorce.

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